My friend and WOW alumni, Les Whitney, plays the ukulele every morning … until one day, several weeks ago, when his left hand simply wouldn’t cooperate. Not dissimilar to my experience of a few years ago – when some weird health thing shows up; you go to the doctor and they say (in carefully-worded language that never uses the dreaded “C” word), “You’ve got cancer.” And the obvious response, “You’ve GOT to be kidding!”
But in that moment, everything changes. Everything.
Some of you have traveled with Les (to Peru, Africa or Puglia). He and his wife, Teresa, are two of the healthiest people I know … both in body and spirit.
Naturally, the news hit close to home for me – but if I can survive a cancer diagnosis – it’s a no-brainer for a guy like Les. A few weeks ago, Scott and I visited Teresa and Les at their home in San Clemente. It was interesting to speak about my cancer journey in past-tense and to learn that much of the way I coped with the information, Les is handling it similarly…
Why am I sharing all this? Because Les has asked a favor. He’s got a BHAG: Big, Hairy, Audacious, Goal. His mission in life is to help others achieve their greatness. He wants to publicize his experience as a way to offer hope and encouragement to someone who needs it.
So far, he’s had a few hundred unique visitors to his journal. He wants to reach 10,000, with a goal to provide hope or inspiration to just 1% (100) of those people. He’d like his thought-provoking questions to fuel conversations around the fragility of life – and the importance of living each day to the fullest.
To honor him – and me – I’m sharing his request, and hope you’ll log onto his website and read his honest, courageous, inspirational entries. I’m sure this will all be content for a best-selling book one day. He writes about his fears, frailties, hopes, and sadness as well as very specific information about his treatments and conversations with his medical team. Please share this with anyone in your life who might need a bit of hope and inspiration.
Here’s the link: Les Whitney’s Caring Bridge website
Following are a few interesting journey entries that Les has posted: (His references to the Camino are about the centuries-old pilgrimage in northern Spain – Camino de Santiago – that he and Teresa walked several years ago. It was a physical challenge, but mostly a transformational journey for the soul …)
Thank you for reading this.
And now, a word about me.
“How are you doing?” you ask? Excellent, I’m happy to say. Happy, healthy and loving everything about my life. More grateful than ever. And, though Scott might disagree, I am working a little less than before. And of course, I’m still traveling – with no plans to ever stop. In fact, when that day inevitably comes, I’ve asked that my ashes be spread on all seven continents.
Once Les and Teresa are past the scary part of the disease and Les gets his butt tattooed, I’ll be planning a “Survivor’s Adventure” to any destination they choose. I’ll keep you posted. It will most certainly be a trip of a lifetime!
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10 Comments
Teresa Whitney March 2, 2019 at 11:10am
Marilyn, as always and forever “The Creative Queen” …you found the perfect way to help Les get to 10,000 unique visits. Thank you so much for posting info about Les’s CaringBridge site as well as his/our latest journey Can’t ever imagine the big “C” happening to us…but such is life! He had his first chemo treatment yesterday and we’re monitoring how it’s affecting him (hasn’t yet other than really, really tired!).
I will start thinking of ideas of places I’d like to see (ok, places WE”D like to see for the “Survivors Adventure”! In the meantime, I’ll be keeping my bags packed! Hugs to you and Scott!
Marilyn March 2, 2019 at 1:08pm
I love you guys – and love that you’re sharing your story. It’ll help SO many people! xxxoooxooxooo MM
Joey Sommers March 2, 2019 at 11:12am
I just found out yesterday my only sister was just diagnosed with cancer. Although this post made me bawl like a baby I thank you both for writing it and posting it.
Joey Sommers
Les Whitney March 2, 2019 at 12:05pm
Thank you so much for sharing my story. This cancer journey is simply another journey in a life full of adventure. We get to meet many special new people, get to experience things we never dreamed we’d be experiencing, and we get to learn more and more about hat we are made of. Thank you Marilyn for blazing the way with cancer and for being a fantastic spirit guide.
Marilyn March 2, 2019 at 1:09pm
Yes – the best part of any journey is the people you meet on the path. So glad our paths crossed so many years ago! xoooxoxoxxx MM
Carlos Gallegos March 2, 2019 at 2:09pm
WOW!
Thank you for sharing Whitney’s story.
It sounds like Whitney’s life’s journey is getting more interesting.
I’d love to be part of that survivers trip. It would be great if Mount Kilimanjaro is in the itinerary.
Marilyn March 2, 2019 at 5:06pm
Kilimanjaro would be cool ….!!!
Jane Halsey March 2, 2019 at 7:21pm
I have not read the blog yet but will go there after finishing this. The beauty and wisdom of Les words that you shared tell me all who read his thoughts on his journey will be enriched. I am so glad that you and Scott are in his life. The exquisite dance of life. Hug.
Hamilton Wallace March 3, 2019 at 8:09am
Thank you for this.
Julie Franz March 4, 2019 at 12:16am
Les and Teresa are both amazing and wonderful to travel with. I admired them so much as they undertook their Camino journey and stand in awe of the way they are dealing with and Les is writing about this latest “adventure.” And I love the PAC Man visual! Caring Bridge is a perfect way to keep people informed.